Camp Kupugani Blog

How To Build Emotionally Intelligent Family Relationships
What does it take to build a relationship that thrives? Eric Barker’s insightful article on emotionally intelligent relationships reveals practical strategies that intentional parents can also apply to their families. Let’s explore how these principles can nurture meaningful connections with your child. The Power of Listening Listening is more than hearing words. Emotionally intelligent individuals focus on truly understanding others. Parents can model this by giving children their full attention during conversations. Avoid distractions, ask open-ended questions, and reflect on what your child says. By being an active listener, you’re […]

Creating Safe Spaces: How to Protect Your Child from Bullying
Bullying affects countless children every year, leaving emotional scars that can last a lifetime. According to the National Center for Education Statistics, about 20% of students ages 12-18 experience bullying nationwide. As parents, we all want our children to feel safe and confident. Let’s explore proactive steps to protect children from bullying and foster safe environments for our kids. The Scope of the Problem Bullying affects more children than we might think. In fact, 90% of students in grades 4-8 report having been harassed or bullied. Moreover, 28% of students […]

How to Teach Your Child to Swim
At camp, I’ve seen reluctant children cling to the edge of the pool as a friend or counselor tries to coax them into letting go. Maybe the water’s vastness seems overwhelming, or each ripple feels like a tidal wave. Many summers at camp, I’ve seen everything change for those kiddos. It happens when a kind swim instructor teaches them to trust themselves in the water. That kind of moment unlocks a world of confidence previously thought impossible. As intentional parents, helping our children learn to swim unlocks a skill that […]

How to Win Arguments Without Losing Your Cool
Arguments can be stressful, especially when dealing with loved ones. Eric Barker’s article on “How to Win Arguments” offers valuable insights that intentional parents can use. Below are some key strategies from the article and how they can foster healthy communication in your family. (Full article here at: Barking Up The Wrong Tree) Keep Your Cool If someone is throwing a tantrum, remember to be the cool cucumber. Label your emotions internally and focus on their left eye. It sounds weird, but it works! Focus on Facts, Not Feelings When […]

What Do Campers and Families Think is the Best Part About Camp Kupugani?
Camp is often a transformative experience for children, and Camp Kupugani stands out as a place where personal growth, community, and enjoyment come together. What makes it truly special? For intentional parents seeking a meaningful experience for their children, the best part about camp can vary—from personal growth to new friendships and a sense of belonging. Here’s a look at the best parts of camp, as shared by campers and their families in surveys from our most recent summer. Personal Growth and Development One of the most significant benefits of […]

Simple Ways to Experience Other Cultures: A Guide for Intentional Parents
As parents, we all want to raise well-rounded children who understand and appreciate the world beyond their immediate surroundings. One way to do this is by exposing them to different cultures, fostering empathy, tolerance, and curiosity. Here are some simple ways to do just that, many of which you can incorporate into your everyday routine. Benefits of Exposure to Other Cultures for Your Child’s Personal Development As intentional parents, it’s essential to provide opportunities for our children to grow emotionally and socially by exposing them to different cultures. These experiences […]

The Power of Rituals: Helping Your Child Thrive
In a world full of distractions, finding meaningful ways to connect can feel like a challenge. But there is power in rituals—simple, repeated actions—to offer a powerful solution. This blog explores how they can transform your family dynamic and support your child’s development. What Are Rituals, Anyway? Rituals are those quirky, repetitive actions we perform that don’t seem to accomplish anything tangible. Yet, they’re a universal part of human culture. From birthday parties to bedtime routines, rituals are everywhere in our lives. Why Rituals Matter Rituals are more than habits. […]
The Power of Gratitude: A Parent’s Secret to Raising Resilient Kids
Gratitude isn’t just a feel-good habit; it’s a proven game-changer. Studies suggest that practicing gratitude can enhance happiness, improve relationships, and even boost health. As intentional parents, teaching gratitude can set your child on a path toward personal and social success. Inspired by a blog post from Eric Barker, here’s a practical guide for intentional parents to nurture the quality in their children. The Power of Gratitude The story of renowned author Stephen King is a testament to the power of gratitude. After surviving a horrific accident, he focused on […]
Raising Resilient Kids: A Parent’s Guide
Because life throws challenges at all of us, helping your child build resilience is one of the greatest gifts you can offer. Resilience isn’t just about bouncing back—it’s about bouncing forward, growing stronger with each setback. Inspired by a blog post from Eric Barker, here’s a practical guide for intentional parents to nurture resilience in their children. Why Resilience Matters Resilience is the foundation for success, happiness, and well-being. Resilient kids handle disappointments, manage stress, and thrive in the face of uncertainty. Think about the long-term: a resilient child grows […]
Happy Holidays from Camp!
Happy holidays! The holiday season is here—a time for family, reflection, and those little moments that make life special. At Camp Kupugani, this time of year always reminds us of the joy that comes from connection and community. While the campfires are out for now, the lessons and memories from summer still shine bright. Let’s explore how you can keep the camp spirit alive during the holidays. Spread Kindness, Camp Style At camp, acts of kindness are woven into daily life. From sharing a laugh with a new friend to […]
Coping with Summer Camp Deprivation in December
Oh, summer camp deprivation! It was mid-December, and the snow outside had turned the world into a frosty wonderland. But inside, my daughter was sulking. “I miss camp,” she said, her voice heavy with nostalgia. The late-night cabin talks, the thrill of conquering the rock climbing wall, and even the soggy socks from lake adventures were all on her mind. As an intentional parent, I felt her pain—and I knew we needed to find a way to bring a bit of camp magic into our winter routine. Understanding Camp Deprivation […]
How to Host Your Own Campfire at Home
There’s something magical about gathering around a campfire. The flicker of flames, the crackle of wood, and the cozy warmth bring people together like nothing else. Even if you’re not in the woods at camp, you can recreate this experience at home. Hosting a campfire is a fantastic way for intentional parents to create lasting memories while teaching valuable life skills. So, if you’re looking for a fun and meaningful way to bond with your kids, why not bring the magic of summer camp right to your backyard with a […]